However, what usually happens is that we allow our feelings to be the problem instead of simply an indicator of something. In the same example, the experience goes, “Hey, she just said something to me. Wow, that’s probably because she thinks I wouldn’t get the job done right anyway. See, I knew she never liked me from the moment she met me.”
The difference between realizing that our feelings our indicators and not making it a problem is proof! What we feel is based on our filters, experiences, beliefs, and views. Our feelings are simply feelings that have no power or fact until verified. We often make others the enemy, walk in fear, shut down our lives, live in depression, and prevent ourselves from moving in our potential because of using our feelings as though they were facts instead of testing them against truth.
How do we test them against truth?
- When in doubt, ask. I call them, “Reality checks”. If I am feeling someone is having a problem with me or something is wrong, I go to the person to see if I am off or are we good. It takes a risk, but the person usually appreciates it.
- Pray continually for God’s wisdom. Romans 12:2 says that we will be transformed by the renewing of our minds, not our feelings.
- Continue to understand our identity in Christ and true Source of worth, acceptance, and love.
Take care,
Charlotte
Dream Madly, Pursue Wildly, Trust Completely tm
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